The process of serious buying and selling is about evaluating product suitability and trust in the vendor. We can evaluate suitability quite easily from most product sales messages, since the need the product is serving and the key features are usually stated there. But how do we evaluate if we can trust the vendor in actually delivering a great product? And we really would like to have a feeling of trust from the sales message, before we contact the vendor, because we don't want to waste our time or even less to give our selves into the hands of an eager sales person in vain, then having to escape awkwardly. This is why customer references are a so common in sales message content. We like to see that someone else did it first and that they are still ok or preferably even better. :) But beyond content elements, why does it matter what kind and style, on which channel and how we deliver our sales message to the person who really is considering to buy?
The reason is that the sales message is a test of your behavior for the customer. If your sales behavior is this kind, your delivery behavior will probably be something like this too, only somewhat down graded once you get the signature on the contract. The customer is predicting your future behavior on what she has now, and all that she has is your message, so every detail on it matters. She is in a hurry to go through life and find the right solution for this thing, and that's why she wants to see that you can click with her right away, before even reading the content of you message. The other way around, you want certain kind of customers, and if your message starts to bring in the wrong kind, you know it is going to waste your time, big time.
How to click with the dream customers for you? The best solution is authenticity on every level, and you knew that already. ;) Just remember that if you don't implement it passionately on every level of your message, it can become distorted by the one wrong thing. You might be able to sell through that, but it is always a challenge compared to clicking right away. Sounds hard, but you have to get everything right to click.
What I think is actually a lot more probable in real life, is that you will accidentally get it right while you're trying get it right. Because what prospects most want to see, is that you really are genuinely pursuing to get everything right for them. Some crudeness or mistakes in the message can be the actual evidence of your intentions for them, or cute or cool, or make you more human, or indicate the right price range for them. So, always keep on trying to create the best sales message in every way, and they will eventually choose to contact you.
Antti Sipilä, CEO, Oneminstory.

